Pamela (Weyl) Carter

January 23, 1945 ~ July 11, 2021 (age 76)


Pamela (Weyl) Carter passed away Sunday, July 11, 2021 at The Journey Home in Bartlesville, OK.  She was 76 years old.


Pam was born January 23, 1945 in Pawhuska, OK the daughter of H.R. and Velma Madge (Soderstrom) Weyl.  She grew up in the Burbank and Pawhuska areas and attended Pawhuska Schools, with the exception of attending Monte Casino schools for two years.  She graduated from Pawhuska High School in 1963.


Pam married Nelson Carter in 1963 at Miami, OK.  From this marriage, they had two sons, Nelson J. “Jay” Carter, Jr., and Jeffrey Wayne “Jeff” Carter. 


The Carters moved to California for a while, where they had a very successful drag racing career.  They moved back to Pawhuska in 1978.  In 1980, Pam was appointed as the Pawhuska Tag Agent, retiring from that position in December of 2015.  Her predecessor remembers how great Pam was to her – one of the most giving people she has ever known.   Pam was involved in the Barnsdall Quilters and Homeland Quilters for Veterans for many years until her death.  For approximately 30 years, she was also involved with the OCIB and Biker Park meets.  She was very involved in politics and campaigning for her party’s candidate of choice.


Pam was a devout member of the Immaculate Conception Catholic Church of Pawhuska, where she was involved with Altar Society, Finance Committee, Church Choir and conducting tours of the Church.  She was also a loyal member of Pawhuska Elks Lodge, where she held many offices, including that of Past Exalted Ruler and current Lecturing Knight.  She served as a Cook for the Pawhuska War Dance Committee for several drumkeepers.  Pam was also a member of the Pawhuska PEO.


Those left behind are her sons, Jay Carter of the home; Jeff Carter and wife, Trish, of Oklahoma City; brother Gary Weyl and wife, Renee of Burbank, OK; granddaughters Jayla Carter of Oklahoma City; Carley Viviani and husband, Dante, of Piedmont, OK; great grandson Enzo Viviani; nephews David Weyl and wife, Dana; and GR Carter and wife, Shaena; nieces Julia Weyl, Trona Carter and Trini Haddon and husband, Randy.  Pam was preceded in death by her parents and nephew, Steve Weyl.


Rosary will be recited Tuesday, July 13, 7:00PM, at the Immaculate Conception Catholic Church.  Mass will be offered Wednesday, July 14, 10:00AM, also at Immaculate Conception.  Father Sean Donovan will officiate.  Interment will be in the Pawhuska City Cemetery.


In lieu of flowers, memorials may be made to the Immaculate Conception Catholic Church, 1314 Lynn Ave., Pawhuska, OK  74056.




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July 13, 2021

7:00 PM
Immaculate Conception Catholic Church
1314 Lynn Ave.
Pawhuska, OK 74056

Mass of Christian Burial
July 14, 2021

10:00 AM
Immaculate Conception Catholic Church
1314 Lynn Ave.
Pawhuska, OK 74056

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